The changes that are welcome and necessary for an individual aren’t always welcomed by her (or his) family and friends (Three of Cups). It’s not that they don’t love us and want the best for us; it’s not that they don’t want us to be happy; they do. But the changes that are coming (not here yet, partly because of strong resistance: Death reversed) may be things that they don’t understand, and, additionally, I think it’s in the nature of groups of people to resist changes. (“Stay here with us and be happy,” they will say — especially if the changes happening in your life involve moving.) It takes an individual to court change and welcome it. Or maybe the coming changes are something that you don’t welcome at all — it happens. But don’t despair. These same people who don’t understand the changes that you may be experiencing in your life will still be there to love and support you during those changes, and to take the edge off the sting of negative transitions. Love doesn’t have to understand, it only has to be there.